How To Become An Alpha Male, Tip #1: Displaying your Alpha Male side means displaying confidence and charm with men AND women. Always build your social network! This is SO important. Look, I’ve seen lots of guys who study “pickup” because they want to learn how to become an Alpha Male. While some of these guys become more skilled and confident when they’re around women, they still act like “Beta” guys when they’re around other men — especially Alpha Male whom they perceive to have higher status than they do.
I know that when you go out, the main aim is to meet girls, but making new alliances with “Alpha” guys is going to help your long-term game. Make this a habit: when you’re at a bar, club, or party — and you see guys who have cool, positive energy and are having a good time (and getting attention from women) — introduce yourself to them. Walk up to the coolest-looking dude in the room and tell him, “Bro, I’m impressed. The girls into you, what’s your secret?” Chances are, this guy will be friendly towards you and he’ll gladly share some wisdom. Now you’ve added a powerful friend and wingman to your social network.